Red Flag Questions for Couples: The Ones You Laughed Off

All 100 questions

The first 4 are on us.

01
You have to call me 'Toxic' every time I speak for the next 3 rounds.
02
What is the most 'red flag' thing you've done today?
03
Describe our relationship in 3 words. If any of them are 'complicated', take a drink.
04
Change my name in your contacts to 'Red Flag' for the rest of the week.

05
Give me a 1-minute 'rant' about my most annoying habit.
06
What is the most 'red flag' thing about our 'origin story'?
07
What is a red flag you ignored because the 'chemistry' was too good?
08
If your life was a 'AITAH' post on Reddit, what would the top comment say about us?
09
What is a red flag you have that your 'ex' used to complain about constantly?
10
What is the most 'red flag' thing you've ever said to me in a text?
11
Which one of us is more likely to be the 'gaslighter' in an argument?
12
If you could 'delete' one of my personality traits, which one would it be?
13
What is a 'toxic' habit we've developed as a couple?
14
Have your parents or best friend ever pointed out a red flag in me that you defended?
15
If we broke up, what would be the 'headline' your friends use to describe why it ended?
16
What is the one thing about my 'past' that you think is a huge red flag?
17
I get to look at your 'Archive'. Explain the first photo that has another person in it.
18
Tell me the 'honest' truth: do you actually like my friends?
19
What is a 'rule' we have in this relationship that only exists because one of us is insecure?
20
I get to read your last 3 'Saved' posts on Instagram. Explain the 'thirst' levels.
21
Have you ever stayed with me during a fight just because you didn't want to be alone that night?
22
Do you think I'm a 'rebound' for you, even if it's been a while?
23
What is the one thing you 'regret' letting me get away with?
24
What is the one thing I do that makes you feel 'disrespected'?
25
What is the one 'boundary' I've crossed that you never called me out on?
26
Do you think we are 'trauma-bonded'?
27
Have you ever 'checked' my location and seen me somewhere you didn't expect?
28
What is the one thing I do that makes you think, 'My ex was actually right about this'?
29
If you found out I was still talking to my 'most recent' ex, would you leave or stay?
30
Have you ever 'lied' about who you were with to avoid an argument?